Everybody who's been in the dating and relationships game for a bit has gone through a breakup minimum once. But no matter how many times you go through a breakup, it's never easy, particularly when the breakup was the cause of a silly misunderstanding or a few bad behavior that you weren't aware of. In these cases, it's easy to wonder how to get your ex back.
Getting an ex back is possible - simple, actually - as long as you keep some things in mind. For example, it is easy to resort to hounding your ex right after a breakup, calling them up and asking them for another chance. This basically does the exact opposite. While it's arguably usual to feel dependent on an ex, making it obvious will only make things worse.
Why is this? it's just as you are not giving your ex a while to themselves. The more you show up or communicate with them, the more they'll think of the cause you broke up - and it'll simply support the idea that breaking up with you was the right thing to do.
If you desire to get your ex back, you will need to do the opposite of stalking them - and that is to give them a little space. This works for many causes, among which is the simple fact that both of you require some alone time to sort your feelings out over the breakup, it'll also give you the time and opportunity to fix your life. Try to think of the reasons that led to the breakup. If the breakup happened as you had a bad habit that you could not kick, you can take this time to try to truly kick it for good.
An additional reason why giving yourselves some space can help you get your ex back is that your ex will have the opportunity to do the same things you're doing at this point. After some days of not hearing from you, your ex will start noticing the difference between what it was like when you're still together, and now that you're gone. When they start feeling the void that you used to fill, they become more likely to call you up and see how you're doing.
One more bad habit to avoid is to try to make your ex jealous by immediately going out and hooking up with a new partner. This most certainly will not get your ex back. If you do this, it will give your ex the idea that you can get along just fine without them - along with the idea that they can live without you, as well. Worse, they might be tempted to do the similar thing and attempt to make you jealous. These things never end well.
If you want to get your ex back, learn from your mistakes. Just after you fix things up within yourself can you hope to begin fixing your relationships.
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